Secrets of dating an older man
Use the classic dating strategies: introductions through friends, blind dates, meeting through activities (work, recreation, religious, etc.), and plain old serendipity. Through them, you'll probably meet women who also enjoy them, women who might become friends — and eventually, maybe more. So the odds are in men's favor — and women know it. Try to correct misinformation, or at least be prepared to prove that you're not the escaped serial killer who shares your name. Photos increase men's response rate 40 percent — for women, photos triple it! Beyond saying, "You're really cute and you live near me," you can add that like the woman you're contacting, you also play tennis and enjoy jazz.
If your man is living in his mother’s house for more than a couple of months — I give a small grace period — RED FLAG. If he drives an expensive car, but rents an apartment — RED FLAG. Men are aggressive by nature, and once we devour our prey, we’re off on the next hunt.
Show him you’re willing to stand by his side — to a point.
When he feels completely comfortable and content, you’ve lost him. You want him to see the benefits of marrying you rather than keeping you merely as a girlfriend. He can think you’re the finest thing walking the earth, but if you become the aggressor, taking his rightful place, he will divert his attention elsewhere.
What society thinks of you can best be revealed by the dumb questions people ask. A woman’s aggression works against a man’s basic blueprint. Never make life-changing decisions in order to be with a man you’re not married to.
Again, men are aggressive by nature, with animal-like instincts — they are hunters. He has become lazy and apathetic, and patiently dies because he is no longer accustomed to hunting for his own food. They are so accustomed to women chasing them that they have become lazy and unwilling to hunt. By that I mean don’t move to another city, change jobs, or change universities. I can’t begin to tell you how many women have done this and come up empty-handed. Valentine's ideas for every stage of your relationship As a hunter hunts, he is very observant of everything around him.